Mental Health Matters: Hitching a ride with hope in Ireland

Dr Eddie Murphy

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Dr Eddie Murphy

Mental Health Matters:  Hitching a ride with hope in Ireland

I am reading this amazing book by Ruairi McKiernan ‘Hitching For Hope’. It’s essentially about learning from the adversity Ireland faced during the rippling recession of 2008.
This story can be retold in the context of Covid-19 pandemic and I anticipate the author will be on the road again!
Ruairi is an interesting person, a giver in life and a community activist. He set up a youth charity but was jaded, burnt out through overwork.
This period, like now, was a period of great upheaval, uncertainty, anxiety and threat to many people's livelihoods. Invited to speak at a conference Ruairi decided to hitchhike to the venue to bring some messages from ‘ordinary’ extraordinary people.
He started with no plan, no idea where to go, where to stay, no budget or money. He stepped into the unknown. His first lift was in Moycullen from a man who was angry about politics and the state of the nation but who had great passion and knowledge around bees, pesticides, and a love of Irish traditional music. And so he travelled through a depressed, upset country that didn’t know how long this would last.
Today’s Covid Ireland is somewhat similar. The people, while pulling together at this phase, are extremely worried. The threat, the unknown timeframe, the inevitable losses and death that will be caused by a virus emanating in China only in December 2019.
A world so interconnected, it is in each town and village in Ireland only three months later. The key messages of hand washing, social distancing and social isolation/cocooning are very relevant. Now is the lull before the storm and as we enter into a more critical phase, what keeps us together will be challenged as it never has before. Our connectedness is key.
As Ruairi continued he was met with kindness and extraordinary people such as Alan Gielty, it was his first time giving someone a lift. A volunteer with RNLI life saving, he witnessed and prevented many drownings.
I work with the Laois Fire & Rescue Service, I see this community spirit and volunteerism with retained firefighters daily. Human kindness is something that we will see us through this adversity. The kindness of health care staff as their teamwork will eventually overcome and prevail against Covid-19. If, as the Taoiseach says, fear is a virus then compassion, care and connection is the antidote. This period will pass.
Ruairi, through meeting people and experiencing their wisdom, sought a simpler life where individualism was secondary to community. That Ireland he saw wasn’t the old blinkered Ireland but one with the positive impact of multicultural, inclusion and diversity.
Lifts from Dutch and German people showed him that we don’t have the same fascist forces at play in Ireland as elsewhere in Europe.
In Limerick, he got a lift from community worker Jen who shared her views on deprivation in Limerick, and showed the power of arts and creativity at play in her community centre where he met volunteers and participants.
Then on to famous Moyross estate, a massive housing project, where he learned more about inequality and deprivation in Limerick, and social stigma. From Limerick back to Dublin where he called to Hill of Uisneach, the ancient centre of Ireland.
It’s a special place where history and connection collided and Ruairi discovered something bigger than himself.
And even though the journey ended the message from Ruairi McKiernan’s wonderful and inspiring read ‘Hitching for Hope’ rings louder now in Covid Ireland and will be amplified further in a post Covid Ireland.
Each of us will be called to act and face adversity. This time we are asked to come together by staying apart. The legacy in Ireland should not be a return to a divided society, but to one where we are bonded together and our community spirit shines so that hope endures, life endures, we endure and our new found values endure.
Hope is the greatest of all virtues. Foster and nuture your hope.
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